“A Deep Bend to Gratitude”

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Sandy Roelfs

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Connection to life

Gratitude is a profound force that can completely change our perspective on life. It's more than satisfaction; it's a way of acknowledging what we have, no matter how big or small it is. By consciously being thankful, we connect with something that is bigger than ourselves, whether it's in the form of a higher power, the universe, or simply the wonder of existence. It helps us to see that life is a gift that was given to us for a reason, and it challenges us to live consciously with that awareness.

See the beauty of what's there

In moments of gratitude, we focus our attention on what we already have - and that changes everything. Suddenly, the everyday becomes special: the warmth of the sun on your face, the smell of fresh bread, the unexpected call from a friend. Gratitude reminds me every day that there are plenty of beautiful moments in the smallest moments.

We don't have to wait for big events to feel appreciated. In our busy lives, it's easy to forget how much we actually have. We become fixated on what's missing without dwelling on everything we have: a roof over our heads, food on the table, loving people around us, and the opportunity to get up and start over every day.

But when we pause and open our eyes to the world around us, we realize that there are many people who do not have these basic needs. Children who are neglected, people without a home, and the sick who fight every day to survive. By recognizing how much we have compared to them, our gratitude grows even more. We realize that life, no matter how imperfect sometimes, is a precious gift. And that awareness invites us to be more aware of what has been given to us. Gratitude taught me to live in the moment, and it taught me that you don't always get what you want but what you need to keep growing in the process.

Gratitude in difficult times

Practicing gratitude in good times can be easy, but the true power of gratitude comes out in difficult moments. When we go through a period of pain or loss, it may feel like there is nothing to be thankful for. But especially in those times, gratitude can help us find perspective and trust that something good can come out of every situation.

There are times when life feels tough, when we wonder why things aren't getting better. But even in those moments, we can be thankful for what we do have. Maybe that's a roof over our heads, the health we take for granted, or the love of someone who never lets us down. You will also understand why some relationships sometimes have to end, for example in friendships, then that's how it should be and acceptance supports that process. For many, believing in a higher plan also offers comfort and trust, an awareness that we are guided, even if we sometimes don't see the way clearly.

Being thankful means not only having a sense of appreciation in our hearts, but also taking action. Being thankful for our life and what we have invites us to think about how we can use that to make a difference — for ourselves and for others. What do we do with the opportunities we get? How can we give back to the world, especially when we realize that others have been less fortunate?

Expressing gratitude can start with small, simple actions: a kind word, a helping hand, or simply consciously reflecting on how good we are doing. It can also mean actively choosing to give back to the world, to do something for those who have less.

This creates a chain reaction of love, kindness, and connection—a gentle reminder of the invisible threads that connect us all to each other and to the divine.

Life as a Gift

Life was given to us for a reason. I was certainly not as thankful for that in the past as it is now, now it affects me every day. The fact that we are here means that there is a reason to cherish this gift. Gratitude asks us not to just let life pass us by, but to consciously choose what to do with it. It reminds us that every moment, no matter how small, is an opportunity to make a difference, for ourselves and for others. Life not only offers us opportunities for our own happiness, but also the opportunity to help others and make the world a little better a better place.

Gratitude doesn't just change how we feel; it changes how we live. When we embrace gratitude as a daily practice, there is a shift in our perspective. We're starting to see life through the lens of abundance rather than shortcoming. We appreciate the small steps, the lessons along the way, and learn that even the toughest challenges are valuable.

Living with gratitude doesn't mean denying that life can be difficult. It means that we choose to find beauty and meaning, even in imperfection.

By embracing gratitude, we choose not only to see the good in our own lives, but also to help others, to make the difference the world needs so much.